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My girlfriend Julia’s wonderful grandmother Melba passed away recently. She was a quintessential sweet old grandma, but was also a very interesting woman. For example:

Larry widowed Melba 16 years ago, but Melba was still quick to speak of him, and always in an loving tone. It was never “Larry”, it was only “My Larry”. She spoke often of their travels together and his charm. She clearly adored him in memory as much as she did when they were together. I never met Larry, but I have a feeling he felt much the same way.
Julia brought this home from her house after the funeral:

She also brought home beautiful love letters from Larry to Melba.

Even years after her Larry’s death, these words reminded Melba that he loved her, too. I think he knew something most young couples would benefit from. If you love someone, remind them every so often.
